tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19948206654630841072024-03-13T21:44:58.663-07:00Online DatingOnline Dating Tips, and adviceAmit Jainhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15455410362675206888noreply@blogger.comBlogger28125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1994820665463084107.post-54923882976301111772010-04-23T00:21:00.000-07:002010-04-23T00:30:56.362-07:00As on the dating sites free online Safe<meta equiv="CONTENT-TYPE" content="text/html; charset=utf-8"><title></title><meta name="GENERATOR" content="OpenOffice.org 3.0 (Win32)"><style type="text/css"> <!-- @page { margin: 0.79in } P { margin-bottom: 0.08in } --> </style> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in;" align="JUSTIFY">There are thousands of online dating sites on the Internet. You can also find online dating sites credible are free. There are also those with excellent online dating sites that can offer offer minimal registration fees, the privacy policies that protect you against all illegal acts and fraud. </p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in;" align="JUSTIFY">
<br /></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in;" align="JUSTIFY">How to find free online sites on the Internet, you can find popular search engines like Yahoo and Google to reputable online dating services. However, it can be difficult to see a 100% free online dating service. You can browse and search sites online and free, but the chances of an online dating service can be credibly low. </p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in;" align="JUSTIFY">
<br /></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in;" align="JUSTIFY">If you are willing to pay the price are ready, we were able to offer good deals for new friends on the Internet. There are great opportunities and possibilities a match with potential partners in the future will just surprise you. If you still intend to free online dating sites, you can always succeed. You just need some patience to find the right one. </p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in;" align="JUSTIFY">
<br /></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in;" align="JUSTIFY">You can pay or not pay for online dating service. The important thing is that you meet a new friend or partner over the Internet. If you find someone on the Internet, it is recommended that you remember some tips to make your online dating safety and fun. </p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in;" align="JUSTIFY">
<br /></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in;" align="JUSTIFY">1st You must be honest about yourself Do not make false descriptions about themselves and never exaggerate. However, you should be careful when giving personal information to someone you have only met for the first time. There are certain personal information about you confidential and secure. </p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in;" align="JUSTIFY">
<br /></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in;" align="JUSTIFY">2nd Take time to know the person better. It is recommended that you get sick, give personal information before meeting with people face to face. You can compare to repeat the question on purpose and to see whether the person is in line with his statements. </p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in;" align="JUSTIFY">
<br /></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in;" align="JUSTIFY">3rd Do not believe everything you read especially on personal messages. You can anybody when you are online canceled. You can an anonymous e-mail address or use another account to protect you. Have fun with online dating and do not take everything seriously. However, you can exchange knowledge and skills that can work to your advantage. </p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in;" align="JUSTIFY">
<br /></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in;" align="JUSTIFY">4th When the time comes that you decided to take to make sure that your friend to accompany you. It is also recommended that you meet in a public place. Take the precautions seriously. You do not really know the true intentions of the person you meet. </p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in;" align="JUSTIFY">
<br /></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in;" align="JUSTIFY">5th Make sure that you are an online dating service especially believable, if you have free. It is recommended that you research and learn more about the free online services. </p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in;" align="JUSTIFY">
<br /></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in;" align="JUSTIFY">These tips will help secure an online dating and fun. Remember that online dating is very different from the effective date. Do not take it seriously and enjoy the pleasure of meeting new friends. Once you start, the trust and credibility of the person, feel, remember, things slow to take before meeting with your friend in person.</p> Amit Jainhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15455410362675206888noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1994820665463084107.post-47554730069771075722010-02-10T10:00:00.000-08:002010-02-10T10:00:04.020-08:00Who Am I? - keeping it real and discovering yourself<span style="font-weight: bold;">Rule #3 is....Socrates said, "Know thyself." Marty says, "If you're not the real you, when the real you emerges, the deal is blown.</span>"<br /><br />As a single, you make the decisions that affect everything you do - where and when you eat, what movie to see, what time, who you choose to be friendly with, where and when to vacation. Those choices are made by you with your own tastes, schedule and desires in mind. However, as part of a couple, if you want to keep the peace, you very often have to defer to the wants and needs of your partner.<br /><br />Keep it real<br /><br />When singles fill out a dating profile form, many people distort or tweak the truth. They think, "I'll write what the opposite sex wants to hear rather than desplay the real me. Besides, everyone else does it." As I mentioned above, when the real you is exposed, the deal is blown! So why waste your time as well as the time of those who you meet, interview and possibly date? "So you love to play golf and tennis?" Let's go to my club this weekend. They have a couples golf and tennis outing." Outing is the operative word. You're outed and you've wasted everybody's time. If as many men really loved to walk on the beach at midnight as say they do, the police would need to set up crowd control lines.<br /><br />People lie about their age, the age of the photo they submit, their height, weight and marital status. Please, please, please - tell the truth! Be honest, candid and funny. It will be better for you in the long run.<br /><br />Discover yourself<br /><br />Most of us are creatures of habit. We have living patterns. We usually wake at the same time, prefer to eat the same things, and eat those meals at the same time, watch the same TV shows, dress the same way, associate with the same people, live in the same house, town, area, or state without ever thinking about redecorating or even moving. We keep the same job in the same pigeonbole cubicle, drive the same car, wear the same watch, all the while admiring others who "do" or "change" things.<br /><br />I'm not talking about winning the lottery and being able to afford to make major changes. Start slowly. <span style="font-weight: bold;">Rule #4 is .... Change your way of thinking. Try to think outside the box</span>. Try to change something everyday. Wake up a few minutes earlier, lie down on the floor and stretch for a few minutes. Change the cereal you have had for breakfast since childhood. Go to the library or get on the Internet and investigate new places to travel to on your vacation. What interests you?<br /><br />You must have some curiosity about something. Look into it. The rewards of learning can be mind-blowing. You get the idea. <span style="font-weight: bold;">Rule #5 is .....Coustantly think about change. Drink Coke? Try Pepso. </span>You'll be amazed at how interesting you'll become by experimenting with new things. You'll actually start a love affair with yourself. C'mon, start walking. It's great exercise, you'll lose weight and you'll learn more about what's going on in your neighborhood. Ask a person you've always admired to lunch, take flying lessons, go whitewater rafting. Any hot air balloon rides nearby? Check your local paper for upcoming club meetings, then try one. You may like it. You certainly will meet new people. Repaint one wall in your home your favorite color Cancel magazines you really don't read or subscribe to The Week and you can get rid of most of them. Call or visit a family member or an old friend or acquaintance you like, but haven't called in a while. <span style="font-weight: bold;">Rule #6 is .....Do the Jumble in the morning paper and watch Jeopardy at night.</span> You'll expand your mind and may just fight off Alzheimer's.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Rule #7 is....Learn new jokes. Tell them right away, even if it's just to your mirror</span>, and they'll be stored in your mind's joke library for future recall when someone reminds you of the subject matter. Once you tell it, you own it; it's only a small matter of connecting hte brain synapse. <span style="font-weight: bold;">Rule #8 is ...Turn into an entrepreneur</span>. What product or service is needed? Write your own business plan. Simple at first, one paragraph describing the idea will do, then refine it, expand it, talk to trusted friends, network and maybe you can turn it into a real business. Look for people with similar ideas and tastes. Go to a museum. Expand your options and you'll expand your mind. I guarantee you'll fall in love with the new you.Amit Jainhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15455410362675206888noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1994820665463084107.post-30611226089814087542010-02-02T04:15:00.000-08:002010-02-02T04:16:48.306-08:00Suddenly singles VS. Long time single : What are the rules?Years ago, younger singles were very influenced by fairly tales and grandmothers who said, "someday soon your true love will come along and you will get married, live in a beautiful house with a white picket fence, have a bunch of children and live happily ever after." Things have changed. Fairly tales and grandmothers are still around, but younger singles have many more options. More experienced and wiser parents have realized that the best thing you can teach your child is self-respect, self-confidence and never having to depend on anyone. Focus on a career, a business niche or a good job. Marriage and a family have taken a back seat to independence.<br /><br />Is being a Long-Time Single a life choice or that you just haven't met the right person yet? I have met several extraordinary women who have never married. This category also included women who married the wrong person or married too young, divorced and never remarried.<br /><br />Most claim to be happy with their "freedom." Some have gotten close, but couldn't close the deal. Most have told me that as they've grown comfortable in their own skin, the though of "taking care of somebody," compromising on too many issues, taking on additional responsibilities with baggage, where to live, and keeping two places are just creating too much of a change "in my comfortably happy lifestyle."<br /><br />Some long-time singles have found the "one," but refuse to get married. Why bring in the lawyers and government? If we choose to end it, we will. We don't need divorce lawyers and a day in court to punish us emotionally and financially for choosing to move on. Kurt Russell and Goldie Hawn have lived together as man and woman for many years, not husband and wife. They appear to have a wonderful relationship without that "License to Bind." It is a more modern way of behavioral relationships. I know a few older gentlemen who believe asking a woman to marry, giving her a ring, their name and "legitimizing" the relationship is the optimal expression of love. I also know some older women who feel that only marriage morally legitimized their sexual behavior together. "What would the children, the neighbours, and the friends think if we're sleeping together and not married? It's a sin!"<br /><br />Whether by death or divorce, the Suddenly Single have the burden of dealing with the loss of a spouse. I have deted a few women who have suffered the loss of a loved one, endured a substantial time for mourning, then got encouraged by friends and relatives to "get out there." Some are ready; many are not.<br /><br />A cab driver heard from his single male passenger that the passenger just played golf and had a hole-in-one. THe cab driver said, "Congratulations, but I know a guy named Harold who got a hole-in-one at least once a month. Harold was also a championship tennis player who played in the U.S. Open, was an award-winning ballroom dancer, a gourmet chef, an accomplished musician who wrote dozens of songs, played ten instruments perfectly, was perhaps the world's greatest lover, made millions in the stock market and millions more in his business. " The passenger was amazed. Who is this incredible guy? Do you really know him? "He passed away," the cab driver said, "I've never met him, but my wife was married to him."<br /><br />Some people never get over their loss. They tend to compare their current date with the embellished memory of their dearly departed. Unfortunately, no one can measure up.<br /><br />Rule #2 is ...A bit of advice - if you're the spouse of the dearly departed, be aware that no one wants to hear about him or her repeatedly. You can say we visited there, or we saw that show, but try hard to keep your mourning private. And if you're the date, keep your antennae at full mast. If it seems that they mention their lost spouse too often, they probably are still in mourning. If it doesn't diminish, they are not quite ready for a new person in their life.Amit Jainhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15455410362675206888noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1994820665463084107.post-44517653441624670482009-06-24T01:09:00.001-07:002009-06-24T01:12:08.414-07:00Being happy doesn't mean that everything is perfect<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_5ftukRqB__I/SkHfXpW6iQI/AAAAAAAAABY/H5RKt-pvJJo/s1600-h/dating.jpeg"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 213px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_5ftukRqB__I/SkHfXpW6iQI/AAAAAAAAABY/H5RKt-pvJJo/s320/dating.jpeg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5350803429624809730" border="0" /></a><br /><br />Being happy doesn't mean that everything is perfect. It means that you have decided to look beyond the imperfectionsAmit Jainhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15455410362675206888noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1994820665463084107.post-17323926274833645882009-06-18T02:44:00.000-07:002009-06-18T02:50:17.900-07:00What a woman wants in her man<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_5ftukRqB__I/SjoNyvQ3OJI/AAAAAAAAABQ/ckRgwcvWjl4/s1600-h/dating.jpeg"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 217px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_5ftukRqB__I/SjoNyvQ3OJI/AAAAAAAAABQ/ckRgwcvWjl4/s320/dating.jpeg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5348602672787699858" border="0" /></a><br /><br />Tall, dark, handsome, rich with a good sense of humour - this indeed forms the perfect package when it comes to choosing a potential male partner<br /><br />However, women at times, expect a little too in terms of what they want in a man. Be it physical appearance, behavioural traits or personality attributes, women can’t stop asking for more!<br /><br />Several studies in the past have shed light on the qualities that women look forward to in their Prince Charming and most girls tend to stick to these parameters when it comes to making their choice. Be it a man’s intelligence, his voice tone, romantic nature, pricey possessions, dancing skills etc, women tend to relate to these qualities and pick the best out of the lot.<br /><br />The evolution theory states that women seem to seek signs of resource acquisition in men to maximise prospects for their kids. They prefer older men who tend to be more advanced in their careers, or of higher status in society and are therefore likely to be a better bet in terms of providing resources.<br /><br />Here’s the complete guide for men to know what exactly it takes to impress a woman...<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Be intelligent </span>: Intelligence is a sure shot way to woo a woman, not only while talking to her, but also during lovemaking moments. A study confirmed that when it comes to picking a bed-mate, both for one-night stands and long-term relationships, women prefer intelligent men to dumb jocks.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Expert say </span>: No matter how financially liberal a man is, intelligence still remains a quintessential quality. When it comes to taking decisions in emotional and physical matters, women expect men to be in the driving seat. Having an intelligent mate also brings women a certain reassurance that their needs and demands will be well satisfied with better communication and understanding.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Deep baritone </span>: Masculinity comes alive in your voice, so if you have a softer pitch, which sounds feminine, isn’t really a great thing to rely on. Women usually look out for men who can be assertive, tough and equally passionate using their voice. A research suggested that women prefer men with deep voices because it signals strength, dominance and good genes.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Expert say </span>: Women are approximately seven times more attracted towards a man who has a deeper voice and a superior position and a dominating work style. High-pitch voices hint towards a pro-social behaviour, so women find such men more reliable.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Be romantic not a rich</span> : A simple recipe to win a woman's heart is to give her loads of love and keep up the romance. It’s not always the case that a girl chases a guy for materialistic reasons, rather women seek romantic mates. A recent survey revealed that most women believe that their perfect man needs to be romantic and not rich.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Expert say </span>: Dr. Khurana states, “The concept of nuclear family has off late become quite popular, so the love, care and affection that were missing earlier, a woman wants that feeling of fulfillment from her life partner. Romance enhances love and emotions, whereas money or wealth is only for materialistic comfort. Men may shower their female partners with money, but the luxuries of no use unless your mate is not there with you to enjoy the good times.”<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Drive a cool car</span> : Women are keen to hang out with a self-made man with a secured future. Whether that stature comes from your bank balance or an expensive car - make the most of your dream wheels to flatter women. A study confirmed that driving a flashy car really does make a person more attractive to women.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Expert say</span> : Materialistic needs are priorities, depending on the woman’s lifestyle Women are naturally drawn to men who can provide for them and ensure the survival of their children. Thus they are attracted to strong and vigorous men who exhibit behaviour that indicate high status.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Look sexy with more hair</span> : A clean shaven body or a half bald look can be a turn-off for your female partner. A research found that ladies looking for love on dating websites are more likely to contact men with a full head than those who are thinning on top.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Expert say</span> : In the past, men were never into makeovers and beauty treatments and they were simply crude. And women have grown up seeing their dads and brothers in a typical macho man look, so this orientation of preferring men with more hair has been there with them since childhood.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Dance like Travolta </span>: It’s not always that women get attracted to men who can do sensuous salsa or romantic ball dance, so let your flamboyance do the talking. According to a research, John Travolta’s flamboyant dance style in the cult film ‘Saturday Night Fever’ is of the kind that is the most attractive to women.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Expert say</span> : Highly-coordinated, complex movements are attractive to women as they see dancing to be a co-ordination between a healthy body and a controlled mind. So a man who is able to dance in a flambouyant style is judged as a person who has control over his mind and likes to work on his mind. Your dancing style may reflect what is going on inside a person's head. If they are self-conscious, it will be reflected in the way they dance.Amit Jainhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15455410362675206888noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1994820665463084107.post-65710872355236307022009-06-16T22:19:00.000-07:002009-06-16T22:20:58.152-07:00Life's tuitionLife is an education. At every turn, if our eyes and hearts are open, we learn about ourselves, about others, about love, about survival. Our not-so-gerat experiences are the tuition we pay for education; our so-great experiences are merit scholarships.<br /><br />Hideous date, if kept in perspective, are just another lesson in your on-going education. It's not the end of the world; it's the beginning of class.Amit Jainhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15455410362675206888noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1994820665463084107.post-78323267245509726022009-06-11T01:05:00.000-07:002009-06-11T01:10:14.968-07:00Five ways to put a so-so date in perspective<ol><li>Ask your parents if every date they ever had was stellar</li><li>List how many good moments you had</li><li>Remind yourself that not every word out of your date's mouth was a pearl of wisdom</li><li>Count how many Saturday nights you have left if you live to be 80</li><li>Rent When Harry Met Sally</li></ol>Amit Jainhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15455410362675206888noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1994820665463084107.post-85759540960062388932009-06-09T23:18:00.000-07:002009-06-09T23:26:13.270-07:00Pre-date AffirmationsAn affirmation is a positive statement about yourself made in the present tense. A few kind words to yourself can calm you instantly, as well as quell any surges of anxiety you may feel as lift-off draws near. Repeat after me:<br /><ul><li>"I'm a fun, interesting, worthy person."</li><li>"I deserve success and happiness."</li><li>"A date is only a date - it's not do-or-die time."</li><li>"I'm calm and fearless."</li><li>"I will enjoy myself tonight, and my date will, too."<br /></li></ul>You're now internally and externally and eternally ready to have a wonderful time.Amit Jainhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15455410362675206888noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1994820665463084107.post-68151543102177648402009-06-06T04:55:00.000-07:002009-06-06T05:07:51.364-07:00How to get the girl (Based on sucessful attempts):<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://indiapolitics2009.files.wordpress.com/2009/06/girl-friend1.jpg"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 221px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_5ftukRqB__I/Sipb5qg5Z3I/AAAAAAAAABI/yE8tYUl5Ulo/s320/girl-friend.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5344184954051454834" border="0" /></a><br /><br /><br />How to get the girl (Based on successful attempts):<br /><ol><li>By Ignore Her.</li><li>Be Yourself.</li><li>By make her laugh.</li><li>By Impress her parents</li><li>By respect her</li><li>Be spontaneous</li><li>By borrow your friend's puppy</li></ol>Amit Jainhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15455410362675206888noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1994820665463084107.post-89150486956028706852009-06-02T00:33:00.001-07:002009-06-02T00:33:46.523-07:00Five sign you really do hate each other<ol><li>A piece of cilantro is stuck to your date's chin and you don't bother to mention it. Your date knows </li><li>it's there and doesn't bother to remove it.</li><li>You both could describe every detail of the door but don't know what color your date's eyes are.</li><li>If it were videotaped, your conversation would make it on America's most Boring video.</li><li>You have to keep explaining punch lines.</li><li>Your mouths are killing both of you from all that fake smiling</li></ol>Amit Jainhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15455410362675206888noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1994820665463084107.post-51404710089908929552009-06-01T00:40:00.000-07:002009-06-01T00:43:01.740-07:00Five ways to say no gracefully<ol><li>It's too soon. I'd rather wait.</li><li>I'm not that kind of guy/girl.</li><li>I have a ten-date rule. If you want to know what it is, ask me out again.......and again.</li><li>I'll know when the timing's right. It's not right, right now.</li><li>I'd rather have something to look forward to, then back on.</li></ol>Amit Jainhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15455410362675206888noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1994820665463084107.post-66064313666860323452009-05-30T00:26:00.000-07:002009-05-30T00:40:06.663-07:00Picking the perfect date by birth orderIf you want to know more about a guy or girl you're dating, their family tree is a good place to look. Certain personality traits, unique to birth position, tend to show up again and again in family after family. For instance, if your date is:<br /><br /><ul><li><span style="font-weight: bold;">The oldest child</span>. He or she will tend to be bossy, super-responsible, competitive and assertive.</li><li><span style="font-weight: bold;">The middle child</span>. A people-pleaser, he or she will often "make nice" in an effort to keep things calm.middle kids tend to be the diplomats in the family and in life.</li><li><span style="font-weight: bold;">The youngest child</span>. Adventurous, creative and confident, youngest children also tend to be hyper-emotional and needy at times they like being babied.</li><li><span style="font-weight: bold;">The only child</span>. After a childhood of being in the spotlight of their families, only children tend to crave attention and will aggressively and charmingly seek it from you.</li></ul>Amit Jainhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15455410362675206888noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1994820665463084107.post-64508124218989366682009-05-28T00:27:00.000-07:002009-05-28T00:34:15.350-07:00What do men and women really want?"What on earth does the other sex want" I get asked a lot it. The answer is simple. While en and women aren't the same, we're not from different planets either. What we all want is this:<br /><br /><ul><li>To be accepted for who we are....not for who you think we should be.</li><li>To be know....warts and all.</li><li>To be heard...even whan we say something you don't want to hear.</li><li>To be appreciated....for small things as well as big.</li><li>To be cherished.</li><li>To be needed.</li><li>To be wanted.</li><li>To be liked.</li><li>To be loved.</li></ul>Amit Jainhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15455410362675206888noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1994820665463084107.post-84715145532186530582009-05-25T00:45:00.000-07:002009-05-25T00:52:25.127-07:00Eight ways to tell if they're married<ol><li>They only give you an office or beeper number.</li><li>They're never home when you call.</li><li>Your dates tend to occur outside city limits.</li><li>They often excuse themselves to call the "office" well after office hours.</li><li>Spur-of-the-moment dates are out of the question.</li><li>They pick only darkly lit, out of the way places.</li><li>They're never available on weekends or holidays.</li><li>They have a mysterious rash (or white mark) on the ring finger of their left hand.</li></ol>Amit Jainhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15455410362675206888noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1994820665463084107.post-60864583251793342882009-05-20T02:53:00.000-07:002009-05-20T02:56:53.182-07:00Nine Foods to fear on a first dateStay away from these foods unless you have breath mints, dental floss, and guts:<br />Garlic<br />Corn of the cob<br />Poppy seeds<br />Popcorn<br />whole lobster<br />French onion soup<br />Ribs<br />Fried chicken<br />WatermelonAmit Jainhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15455410362675206888noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1994820665463084107.post-7529981546530581252009-05-15T00:50:00.000-07:002009-05-15T02:42:56.061-07:00Place and things to avoid while first dateFollowing are occasions and places you want to avoid as a first date. As a rule, these events create unrealistic expectations and involve too many other people. If it's fireworks you want, get these to a wienie roast a gasoline jumpsuit.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Wedding</span>: Going to a wedding as a first date violates just about every single one of the ten basic rules listed earlier. And if you want to quibble about rules 6 (Do something that isn't competitive) are you really so naive as i think your date isn't trying to figure out how to beat you out the door when the ceremony's over? The stakes are just too high at weddings. Avoid them at all costs as a first date. In fact because weddings are such a bad idea for a first date. I've made it the standard by which all other bad first date ideas are judges.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">New Year's Eve Party</span>: Oh, puh-leeeze, New Year's Eve is the scariest night of the year for a first date. New Cloths, high expectations, lot of booze, high ticket others consider this a mini-wedding. Just about the only thing it lacks is a weeping mother-in-law and a crazy uncle who thinks the ladies' room is the coat check. On second thought, it just lacks the mother-in-law.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Valentine's day</span>: Valentine's day has all the anxiety-producing elements of a wedding, all the over-blown expectations of New York's , plus the paper-Copied-induced hope of true Romance. Valentine's day is so potentially explosive that even couples who've been together for years approach it warily.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Thanksgiving dinner</span>: Think of how many trams you've experienced at your family's Thanksgiving get-together:Uncle Harry getting plastered; Sister Susie crying into the crystallized yams; brother George coming out; Mom burning the turkey; and cousin Jim wanting to bring the TV to the table to watch football. Even if your family doesn't behave like this(what, you're from Pluto?) big time.In short, Thanksgiving is truly a family holiday - all the more reason to avoid it as a first date.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Beach</span>: Although a great date for later on. the beach isn't first date stuff: too much skin, do you or don't you apply sun tan lotion, and if you do, to what and to whom? A first date on the beach also violates rule 5(Go to a place that's easy to get to) Rule 10(Find an activity that doesn't last more than a couple hours), and often rule 3(Do something that doesn't require new clothes).<br /><br />Go here for <a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://rabnebanadijodii.wordpress.com/2009/05/15/good-places-for-a-first-date/">Good Places for a first date</a>.Amit Jainhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15455410362675206888noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1994820665463084107.post-45348713858387827452009-03-04T05:49:00.001-08:002009-06-29T00:41:41.035-07:00Finding a True Soulmate is More Important Than EverIn spite of the entertainment boom of the Online Dating Industry - Around 55% of adults now go for online dating - Latest Survay shows that there's been a 53% increase in the number of people living alone since 1970. Are the online dating services unable to deliver the goods - or are their members simply unprepared for success?<br /><br />"Although many singles seem to enjoy living alone, most of them merely tolerate it because they haven't found other options,"<br /><br />dating website offers several options and provides a new service and online dating advice to help singles meet. they teaches client how to write romantic Letters of Introduction and how to use the Internet to find their true Soulmates.<br /><br />"There are millions of singles living alone who just don't know how to find each other," offers free Dating Consultation for singles on website<br /><br />"A lot of people who try Online Dating find it difficult to promote themselves properly. Nowhere in school is anyone taught how to advertise themselves as a potential husband or wife,".Amit Jainhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15455410362675206888noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1994820665463084107.post-42503728939101653112009-02-07T00:03:00.000-08:002009-02-07T00:10:54.891-08:00Valentines go digital: Rebooting your relationship<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_5ftukRqB__I/SY1B0n3r-iI/AAAAAAAAAA4/XgTxPeD7jPU/s1600-h/online-dating2.jpg"><img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 199px; height: 129px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_5ftukRqB__I/SY1B0n3r-iI/AAAAAAAAAA4/XgTxPeD7jPU/s320/online-dating2.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5299964708796496418" border="0" /></a><br /><p>It's coming, a quiet rumbling that soon will become a clamor. Can you feel it? Valentine's Day. </p> <p>For some, Feb. 14 is a welcome day to celebrate the joys of love and relationships. For others, it's a contrived example of commercialism at its most crass -- but that's hardly a romantic notion. </p> <p>This day, like other significant holidays of the winter months, can sometimes make -- or break -- your relationship. Did your love send you something? Was it bigger than a bee sting, sweeter than spun sugar and shinier than Disney Hall in the afternoon? (Yes, Valentines can be scrutinized using similar criteria for assessing engagement rings.) </p> <p>With everything related to romance taking on a techie spin -- dating, mating, cheating, deleting -- it makes sense to try to find the wired (and occasionally weird) angle to the ethereal. </p> <p>Here are a few ways to add a little high-tech sweetener to reboot your romantic life. You can even do some without breaking the bank.</p> <p><strong>More after the jump.</strong></p> <a name="more" id="more"></a> <p>Since I'm a bit of a geek -- my notion of tear-inspiring romance is getting a Wii Fit from my sweetheart -- I sought some guidance from an expert,</p> <p>"So many say technology is taking time away from their relationships," she says. "You just have to figure out how you can make it work for you." And since so many people are meeting through technology, she says it's only fitting that it have a place in the relationship.</p> <p><strong>"Textual healing":</strong> In this category, Denay suggests a little bit of high-tech flirting and maybe a slightly suggestive voicemail -- nothing too over the top. Text sweet nothings to your honey or leave a sweet yet sexy voice message. Make them blush in that boring meeting with a personal message, she says.</p> <p><strong>-- Modern-day mix tapes:</strong> Those of us old enough to remember the '80s also remember the big deal mix tapes once were. (For those too young, we used to listen to music on these things called <em>cassette tapes</em>.) To capture the feel and personal touch of having a soundtrack compiled by someone who knows you intimately, Denay suggests creating a playlist for your honey's MP3 player. "Name it with of something having to do with your relationship," she says. </p> <p><strong>-- Book of textual poetry:</strong> Some have declared the romance and art of writing notes and letters in relationships dead. Not so, Denay says The modern version of that might be text and e-mail messages. You may have a very romantic diary of your road to romance wrapped up in the many electronic exchanges. Print them out and make a little book, she suggests. </p> <p><strong>-- Getting carded: </strong>From our childhood, getting Valentine's Day cards was among the sweetest treats. E-cards are nice and all, but it's not quite the same. Denay points to vagr.com as a blending of both worlds. You can upload your own photos and have cards with special effects made. It's really is pretty easy. The website walks you through step by step. Some cards are flirty. Others can be a little more risque, such as the Peep Show template at the right -- depending on the pictures you upload and how you crop them. If you go tame, these can be family-friendly as well.The cards run about $3.50. </p> <p><strong>-- Treasure map:</strong> Create a Google map that highlights locations that have meaning in your relationship.</p> <p>"All of this costs you less than $10," she says, and you don't need to be a tech geek to do them. </p> <p> Well, I am a bit of a tech geek. Some of you are familiar with my love affair with iPhone apps. So any techno-romance story wouldn't be complete without a look at how they fit in. </p> <p>Forget proposing by Jumbotron at a Lakers game. These days, you can do it on the small screen. Whether saying "I do!" or "I dig you," some are doing it with slick videos made of photo slideshows. One guy proposed by iPod using Animoto, which is available as an iPhone app and online service. </p> <p>There also are apps, which share the same name, to help you pop that question: iPropose and iPropose. The latter has heterosexual and same-sex proposal options. My answer, even to the right inquisitor, would probably be: I do ... not believe you asked me to marry you by handing me your iPhone with this screen on it! </p> <p>The apps I checked out range from the foodie to the fun to the flirty to the frisky. You've heard the saying that the way to a loved one's heart is through the stomach. In addition to the sweet treats here, the 99-cent Valentines Recipes iPhone app offers a variety of dessert recipes that will help you feed the romance. </p> <p> In the fun category, you can use iLoveMatch to see whether your names suggest a good fit. (There are a few versions of match "calculators." All of the ones I saw cost 99 cents.) Type in names to find out whether it's a love connection; it's the high-tech version of name doodling. </p> <p>Another fun option is Love Poem Generator. You can mix and match preselected sentiments into a poem you e-mail to a friend or love. <strong>Caveat:</strong> The generator seems to think perspiration is precious, using <em>sweat</em> instead of <em>sweet. </em>Check out my creation there to the right<em>.</em> The saving grace is that the poem is sent as an e-mail, giving you the opportunity to correct that error in the subject field and the body of the message.</p> <p>If you love the songs dripping with angst and longing and amorous admiration but putting together a modern mix tape just takes too much time, there's Valentine Radio. The 99-cent app will locate love songs all over the world and play them for as long as you have it open. Just remember to provide your own crackers for all that cheese. Oy! (I'm so not a hopeless romantic.) </p> <p>In the flirty category, if you are without a Valentine, you might try iPickupLines for a little assist in things to say. It's listed as a "game for singles." That's good because you very likely will remain single if you try them seriously. It's free. There's also iFlirt, for 99 cents, to offer you courage and advice on how to click with someone else. Although, I'm not too sure about some of the advice: Dress up like a bunny and deliver cookies.The app also allows you to post on someones Facebook wall every 10 minutes for a week. Um, that reads a bit stalkerish to me, but what do I know. </p> <p>Now on to the frisky. I've <em>heard</em> there are dice you can use to spice up your relationship. Roll a romantic or risque notion. The iDesire app puts that playfulness on your iPhone. Shake it for a random combination of actions and areas, like "pinch" and "navel." At 99 cents, it's less than those dice -- I mean, so I've heard.</p> <p>For my honey, while it'd be cute if you sent me a personally made virtual candy heart, I'd suggest looking at something such as 1800Flowers, so you can order the beautiful bouquet -- <em>now</em> -- from your phone. (The app is free; I'm guessing the flowers aren't.)</p>Amit Jainhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15455410362675206888noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1994820665463084107.post-69238238070245186312009-02-03T23:04:00.001-08:002009-02-03T23:07:16.673-08:00Single life shouldn't be cause for shame<p>Valentine's Day is less than two weeks away, but all the merchandise has been in stores since the beginning of January, when it was time to take down all the faux Christmas trees and turn off "Jingle Bells." Safeway employees have long-since-stocked the candy shelves with pink and red M&M's bags, and customers can't miss the cheesy Disney Valentine's Day cards by the store's front entrance. The much-anticipated romantic comedy, "He's Just Not That Into You," hits theaters this Friday, and all the single women who need to take the film title as advice will go out and see the movie, only to forget the moral message and continue agonizing about being single and chasing after undeserving men.</p> <p>Some people want to boycott Valentine's Day because it's a reminder of loneliness, but the date isn't that special to begin with, even while in a relationship. It's a filler holiday for people like me who enjoy decorating, watching "The Notebook," and making excuses to consume dangerous amounts of chocolate.</p> <p>It seems like a lot of people are unhappy about being single, even at a young, college age. I have girlfriends who take their relationship statuses off Facebook.com simply because they cannot handle the fact that they're without a man, and seeing the word "single" is too much to stomach. The only other logical reason to omit a relationship status is to deter creepy guys, and there are way too many of these weirdos lurking around the internet.</p> <p>There shouldn't be a stigma against singles because it's much more humiliating to be in a dead end, unhealthy relationship with a really bad person, and this kind of couple only stays together out of pure security. They may not be extremely happy, but they don't have to be alone or visibly depressed, so they hold onto dying relationships for a sense of comfort and familiarity. This works until one realizes that life is not about being comfortable and safe all the time, and being uncomfortable (single, presumably) can have more benefits.</p> <p>What's so terrifying about being alone? Such views of doom discourage independence and self-understanding, and before anyone can love you, you have to love and understand yourself. Being alone doesn't scare me at all, but I find it strange that so much of our young lives revolve around relationships, especially when we have so many other things going on. We're not living in the 1940s, when most people married in their early twenties or late teens, so it's unnecessary to jump back to older times in discreet ways. Whenever I visit my family at home, the first question out of my sister-in-law's mouth is always, "Are you dating anybody?" And then the conversation is over because school, work, and friends just aren't sufficiently riveting topics for some people.</p> <p>Being single doesn't translate into being weird or unwanted. In many cases, it's just not worth it to start a relationship, because all the current prospects are unpromising; and you can't force anything to work out. Otherwise,it isn't worth much. It's better to be alone for an extended period of time than latch onto the first decent person that comes around, just for the sake of having arm candy and someone to talk about.</p> <p>Some may disagree, but it seems much harder to be single at an older age, so college students don't really have anything to worry about for another thirty years. There aren't a lot of great social opportunities for older singles, and they are at a disadvantage because most people their age are already married - or, at least, the good ones are.</p> <p>College students and recent graduates have a better chance of just meeting someone at random while older widows or bachelors have to invest in online dating services, which are usually pretty suspicious and creepy. Someone in this position may have to accept that it's very possible that they'll be romantically deprived forever; and as sad as it sounds, there are worse things that can happen. When I asked a 55-year-old divorced student if she wanted to meet someone after splitting with her ex-husband, she said, "No. I'm absolutely done with that part of my life."</p> <p>If you happen to be alone on Valentine's Day and after, remember that you have other great things going for you. So feel free to eat one of those extra large cookies from Paradise Bakery Café and be thankful that you don't have to watch your figure for a significant other.</p>Amit Jainhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15455410362675206888noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1994820665463084107.post-38807904732538936782009-01-27T22:17:00.003-08:002009-01-27T22:24:57.860-08:00100% Free Dating Site: 'Online dating is like being a kid in a candy shop'I was always meeting the same type of person and I wanted to break that cycle. The idea of <a href="http://www.vagr.com/">online dating</a> didn't really phase me, it just seemed like the kind of thing people in my age group do. It makes sense too, because London is such an anonymous city and it's hard to meet someone unless it's through a friend of a friend, which hadn't worked out for me.<br /><br />I was on vagr.com for about three weeks before I met lez, my wife. I posted that I would like to meet a woman in her 30s and, initially, I had a couple of date disasters. The first date I arranged was a lunch date and I soon realised what a bad idea that was. Lunch is not like grabbing a coffee; you're locked in, even when there's no spark. The other disaster was with a woman I met on the site who didn't have a profile picture. Alarm bells should have started ringing, but she wrote funny messages so I decided to go for it. I asked her if she wanted to go for a coffee. She replied that I should come round to her house instead. When I arrived, the house looked shabby, there was no doorbell and it was pitch black inside. It turned out she was not in her 30s but her late 40s, and once we started chatting I realised it wasn't going anywhere. I stayed for a coffee though because I felt sorry for her. She had been on vagr.com for nine months and I was her first date.<br /><br />After a few more dates - some good, some bad - I received an email from lez, but she didn't have a profile picture, which made me apprehensive. I didn't reply straight away, but then I thought why not? She only lived down the road. We started to email a bit more, then had a phone conversation and arranged to meet for a coffee date on a Sunday. Once we met up I knew I wanted to see her again. We started going out regularly and soon fell in love.<br /><br />I guess I'm not 100% comfortable with telling people we met online. There is a part of you that thinks you somehow failed socially because your eyes didn't meet across a crowded room. But the overly romantic method of meeting someone is unrealistic in this day and age because, as a society, we don't smile at people in the street anymore, or strike up conversations with strangers. I'm just very happy things turned out the way they did.<br /><br />Online dating is a bit like being a kid in a candy shop. You can look at all the goods on offer before making a choice, which<br />was great for me because I am so specific about what I want. Dating online also helps you get clear in your head what you want from a partner. It's an opportunity to sort the wheat from the chaff, so the odds of finding someone you get on with are better.<br /><br />I like being in a relationship, so I went on vagr.com to find a date that would lead to something long-term. My field of work is dominated by women and when I went out it was with couples, so my chances of meeting a new partner were minimal.<br /><br />I had been in a fairly long-term relationship that came to an end in 2006. After that, I went on a few dates set up through friends and I had a fairly successful short-term relationship. After we broke up I thought to myself: "I'm 34, I have a daughter, and in terms of dating I've been there, done that, it's time to try something different."<br /><br />I put my profile up, but I didn't add a photo because I had heard that, as a woman, when you add a photo you get lots of responses, which scared me. I wanted to have more control over the volume of responses. A couple of people asked me out on dates, but I didn't respond immediately; I was still cautious. I also assumed a degree of deception; you hear stories about people lying about their age and appearance.<br /><br />Then I noticed that lez and I had a high match [when you join vagr.com the site matches you with people based on your requirements]. I saw that he was local - I live in New Jersey and he lives in New York.<br /><br />I also noticed that he had two daughters and one of them was the same age as my daughter. I found this reassuring and I also liked that he had similar political leanings to me. So I sent him an email that said: "Hi, you live down the road, here's my number, call me and we can meet up." He told me later that I shouldn't have given out my number, that it wasn't the correct etiquette for online dating, but I had no idea. I just thought it was silly to keep emailing when I knew I'd be able to tell after five minutes on the phone whether I wanted to take it further.<br /><br />When we spoke, I did find him easy to get on with, so we arranged to meet for a coffee. Once we met up we stayed chatting to each other for hours. We started dating in September 2007, by December we were living together and then we got married in August 2008.<br /><br />vagr.com made sense for where I was at in my life. With a child, it's not like I could go out to bars and pubs all the time. All my friends were coupled up, the single people I knew all used online dating and it was a really good way to see what was out there.Amit Jainhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15455410362675206888noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1994820665463084107.post-70436425918571698042009-01-22T22:11:00.000-08:002009-01-22T22:13:35.429-08:00Dating -- what NOT to say whenBetween the Internet, blogging, and social networking, the concept of courtship can seem pretty antiquated. Depending on how Web-present you are, with the push of a button a guy could potentially access everything from your videotaped colonic to your SAT scores to mortifying details of your most recent heartbreak. All this before you've even met him in real life.<br /><br />Once, I was regaling a new date with a funny story -- only to have him interrupt and finish it for me. It wasn't a case of sudden onset Alzheimer's. I'd never met him before. He'd Googled me and read a piece I'd written that contained the anecdote. I was busted for plagiarizing my own material.<br /><br />With any luck, your online presence isn't as loud and embarrassing as mine. Still, living in a post-privacy world begs the question: How much information is too much information? Negotiating the privacy line becomes especially crucial when dating someone new.<br /><br />So here are some guidelines for what to reveal and what to leave unspoken. For now, anyway.<br /><br />One-to-three dates: Unless you suddenly burst into tears over appetizers, he doesn't need to know that your last boyfriend cheated on you with your sister. (And if you're still bursting into tears, you probably shouldn't be dating.) Ditto your struggle with eating disorders, your family's predisposition to certain kinds of cancers, or your puppy's gnarly digestive issues.<br /><br />Think of yourself as a director for the first few dates and cast him in the role of aspiring ingénue. He needs to impress you. Ask questions. Listen to his answers.<br /><br />The added bonus? The less you talk about yourself and the more questions you ask about them, the more intelligent men will think you are. Which is ridiculous. And hilarious. Also? True.<br /><br />Two-to-three weeks: Unless you two are keeping things very casual, if he's been around for a few weeks, you're probably thinking that he has keeper potential. This is where you can let yourself be a little more vulnerable -- but don't give away the farm! -- and see how he reacts. If a guy is going to freak out because your Uncle Marco is serving a life sentence, now's the time to find out. Before you get too attached.<br /><br />However, don't jump the gun and start dropping L-bombs or giving him your ovulation schedule. Though it might feel like you've known him forever, you haven't. And you might not want to. Take it slow.<br /><br />Three-to-six months: If you're a permanent-minded lady (and not all of us are, so if you're not, please disregard), this would be the time when you figure out whether or not he's h-h-h-husband material. Meaning, he doesn't bug the crap out of you. After a few months, you've seen each other through a minor crisis or two. You've heard him fart. He's seen you sick, runny-nosed and snotty, and he still thinks you're cute.Amit Jainhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15455410362675206888noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1994820665463084107.post-43257352191741963242009-01-19T02:33:00.000-08:002009-01-19T02:34:38.086-08:00There’s no recession for online datingHousing prices are plummeting. Jobs are evaporating. And the economy is a mess.<br /><br />But singles are wading into the online dating pool in record numbers, giving virtual matchmakers their best traffic figures in years — and giving users even better odds for romantic success.<br /><br />In addition to “this cougar is looking for her prey” and other come-ons, singles are now headlining their posts with more somber come-hithers, such as “it’s a gloomy time of year and I’m not talking about the rain” or “need hot girlfriend, will provide food.”<br /><br />Whether they charge by the month or accept free posts, online personals are experiencing a major boost, even if their users seem to be scaling back on the cost and quantity of their dates.<br /><br />Craigslist personals postings and eHarmony.com registrations have each seen 20 percent increases in 2008. Match.com memberships were 22 percent higher in December than they were in the same period last year. Even more interesting, eHarmony and Match.com reported especially high traffic on days when the Dow Jones Industrial Average plummeted.<br /><br />“We had our third busiest weekend of the year following the five-year low in the stock market,” says Mandy Ginsberg, general manager of Match.com North America.<br /><br />That was in mid-November, a historically slow time for Internet dating. But ask people who were brave enough to check their 401(k) balances at that time: November was historic for other reasons, too. Not only did the Dow dip below 8,000, but the unemployment rate was climbing, and housing prices were dropping.<br /><br />“Stressful times can have a big effect on people’s desire to be in relationships,” says Gian Gonzaga, an eHarmony research scientist. “When people are feeling stressed about the economy and feeling stressed about their love lives, they’re more likely to want to be in a relationship than when they’re not feeling stressed.”<br /><br />Gonzaga was part of the eHarmony team that analyzed the results of a new relationship anxiety survey conducted by Opinion Research; 92 percent of 1,092 respondents reported feeling stressed about the economy. How does that manifest in individuals’ desire for long-term relationships? About 19 percent of unmarried men and 25 percent of unmarried women say they want one even more.<br /><br />Men ages 25 to 44 are feeling the most stressed about the effects of their personal economic situations on their love lives, according to the eHarmony survey. Psychologist Diana Kirschner speculates it’s because American men derive so much self-worth from their jobs.<br /><br />“A lot of self-esteem and self-love and the identity of being a powerful person is tied up with work in this culture,” says Kirschner, a New York City relationship expert and author. “It can really stress people out if they’re out of work or financially challenged or feel like they can’t do their normal courting routine.”<br /><br />But even though less income often means lower self-esteem, it doesn’t have to be that way, Kirschner says.<br /><br />“When there’s less money available to go on fancier dates, people can have a very simple connection that’s even more fulfilling,” she says.<br /><br />Doing things like going for a walk means there’s more talking. And where “there’s more talking, there’s more sharing, so there’s intimacy. There’s more closeness. You wind up being more real with each other,” she says. “It’s not about impressing the other person, because you can’t (afford) to impress them.”Amit Jainhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15455410362675206888noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1994820665463084107.post-1405449973358494732009-01-13T05:44:00.000-08:002009-01-13T05:45:58.297-08:00Tonight on 'The Bachelor': The dating beginsSome new footage has been added to tonight’s episode of ABC’s reality-romance series “The Bachelor,” which will stretch the episode to a full two hours.<br /><br />That may mean more chances to see Sharon Staebell, the 1995 graduate of Batavia High School, who is one of 15 women left vying for the heart of "Bachelor" star Jason Mesnick. Sharon was the second to last bachelorette to receive a rose in last week’s season premiere.<br /><br /> One of last week’s departed hopefuls said Sharon was one of the women she was surprised to see get a rose.<br /><br /> “I wasn’t sure she was going to get one. She was so quiet and what not,” Jackie Hickey, the wedding planner from Dallas, said in response to a question from Reality TV World’s John Bracchitta in a teleconference arranged by ABC last week.<br /><br />*<br /> Three women are expected to depart the show by the end of tonight’s episode, in which Jason pays an unannounced visit to the ladies‘ villa where “a sexy pool party breaks out and the fun starts as one woman after another seeks to lure him away for a few precious minutes.” Episode photos posted on ABC‘s publicity site show Sharon and Jason partaking of pool games with the other bachelorettes.<br /><br /> The episode also features the first kiss of the season, according to ABC.<br /><br /> Here’s a preview from the network publicity department:<br /><br /> “The 15 remaining bachelorettes settle into their luxurious villa in Malibu and the fairy tale begins. Two lucky women will get fabulous one-on-one dates - a private performance by R&B chartbuster Robin Thicke at the Walt Disney Concert Hall and a panoramic ride over Los Angeles in the Goodyear Blimp. However, the women are totally blindsided by an announcement that some of them won’t have a date at all before Jason has his next rose ceremony. They might just have to steal some time with the handsome single dad. Finally, one woman makes a dramatic exit before the rose ceremony.”<br /><br /> Two women will be sent home during the rose ceremony.<br /><br /> The episode airs from 8 to 10 p.m. on WKBW-TV, channel 7 in Buffalo, and WHAM-TV, channel 13 in Rochester.Amit Jainhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15455410362675206888noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1994820665463084107.post-82664554702582855502009-01-12T01:18:00.000-08:002009-01-12T01:24:11.574-08:00Online Dating Tips 1-How to start Online Dating<meta equiv="CONTENT-TYPE" content="text/html; charset=utf-8"><title></title><meta name="GENERATOR" content="OpenOffice.org 3.0 (Win32)"><style type="text/css"> <!-- @page { margin: 0.79in } P { margin-bottom: 0.08in } --> </style> <p style="font-weight: normal;">The following <a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.vagr.com">online dating</a> guide will help single dating partner through the dating site online.
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<br /></p> <p><strong>Choose Reputable Online Dating Sites</strong> </p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in;" align="left">This is where you can really lose a lot of time (and money) if you are not careful. Because there are a lot of waste in the world, it is important to understand what makes a good free online dating site.
<br /></p> <p><strong><span style="font-weight: normal;">Vagr.com offers free memberships, and have good search databases where you can meet the kind of date you are looking for, we recommend signing up for free to get acquainted with the features. After that you go for further online dating.</span></strong>
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<br /></p> <p align="left"><strong>Write a Great Online Dating Profile</strong> </p> <p>After choosing a <a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.vagr.com">free online dating service</a>, you need to write a dating profile that will attract the exciting type of singles looking to meet you. </p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in;" align="left">Two of the most important elements of your dating profile in the body, where you can talk about how beautiful you are, your screen name and photo online.
<br /></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in;" align="left"><strong><span style="font-weight: normal;">Why are they so important? It's simple. Your screen name and photo dating, dating are the first things that only dating partner see before deciding whether or not to click on to read the rest of your online dating profile. If you mess up these few people are with you, spend some time for these as attractive as possible. </span></strong> </p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in;"><strong>Identify your Goals</strong><span style="font-weight: normal;"> </span> </p> <p>Before cleaning the many dating sites on the Internet, understand what you are looking to achieve. </p> <p>Ask the following questions will help your dating search process while saving you tons of time: Are you simply looking for a partner to chat online? Looking for a court date or casual and long-term relationships that have resulted in marriage? Does your date to live on site, or are you with a long distance copacedic dating?
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<br /></p> <p><strong>Get Educated About Online Dating Safety</strong> </p> <p>Online dating is no longer a taboo subject in the church. Millions of people worldwide are trying online dating because there are many benefits, and they are having wonderful results.</p> <p>However, like any other dating scenario, there are pitfalls to avoid. Reading about safety dating tips for dating singles will help ensure a great time.
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<br /></p> <p><strong>Prepare For Your First Online Dating Communication</strong> </p> <p align="left">Whether you are replying to sombody else’s online dating ad, or you are getting back to someone who has clicked on yours, you need to learn good communication skills.</p> <p>Good communication is key to any successful online <em>and </em>offline dating relationship. Along these lines, practicing proper email etiquette for dating and learning good conversation starter skills can help you get started on the right track.
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<br /></p> <p><strong>Enjoy Your First In Person Date</strong> </p> <p>It’s natural to experience a little nervousness on your first date. In order to ensure things run smoothly, be sure to read dating tips on first date do’s and don’t’s. If you are at a loss over what to do on your date, checking out some creative dating ideas may help get the wheels turning.</p> <p align="left">Are you a <a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.vagr.com">dating single</a> with your own experience to share about online dating?</p> Amit Jainhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15455410362675206888noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1994820665463084107.post-80444899622560157492009-01-04T21:47:00.000-08:002009-01-04T21:56:05.047-08:00Dating is a long test of compatibility<meta equiv="CONTENT-TYPE" content="text/html; charset=utf-8"><title></title><meta name="GENERATOR" content="OpenOffice.org 3.0 (Win32)"><style type="text/css"> <!-- @page { margin: 0.79in } P { margin-bottom: 0.08in } --> </style> <p style="margin-top: 0.05in; margin-bottom: 0.16in;">I wish there was no general rules and we just get to court, but it is a ritual, there are things that happen that we are pleased to stimulate, generate interest, and so confused Are we perfect? If we just threw ourselves together, the chances of long-term happiness May be reduced. And yet previous generations have managed to succeed on a much less complex courtyard list of criteria. Many arranged marriages work too interesting.</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in;">In every society there is a defined set of social rules that we follow, how and when to eat to how we behave in public. The issue here is that when women date there are things that can help them be more effective.</p><p style="margin-bottom: 0in;">
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